5 Mistakes When You Try Doing Something
"Take a method and try the method. If it fails, admit it and try another method. But most importantly, do something. "- Franklin D. Roosevelt -
"Often the difference between success and failure is not because that one does not have the skills or ideas, but the courage to take the risk on existing ideas and implement them."
- Maxwell Maltz -
What is stopping you from doing something? Here are five mistakes I have done many times. And I still make mistakes, but not as much as I did before. I continue to improve gradually.
These are actions that can make you hold back, even stop yourself from taking action and getting what you want. In fact there is more than 5 things, but now I want to focus on the 5 things that in my opinion can stop me and other people in general.
1. Too Seriously In Thinking of Something
Thinking often mention as the best thing in the world. In some cases, actually inhibits your thinking. In my opinion: I was not the result of my thinking, I was an observer of my thoughts. Thoughts like this make you not too attached to existing ideas. And to avoid the thought that what people say is the truth. Often this kind of thinking is useless and will only satisfy your head. And you realize that you do not have to think too seriously these thoughts. You can forget it if you want it.
With this perspective, it will be easier for you to take a distance from your thoughts and control them rather than allowing yourself to be controlled by these thoughts. Common sense is important, but sometimes we realize we are thinking of what to listen to and which thoughts are just nonsense.
2. Too Seriously Consider Your Emotions
There is time for you to listen to your emotions. But often it is not a good idea. Once again, for me the emotion is something I observed. It allows me to take a distance from the emotions and not too seriously considers your emotions, unless those emotions can help you in certain situations.
If you have a negative emotion that you refrain from taking action, then what can you do so that you do not really take seriously your emotions?
One thing you can do is to accept the fact that there is a feeling in you. Instead you deny your feelings and do not accept such feelings; let go and accept those feelings. By accepting these feelings without giving any label and just watched: you could reduce the negative feelings that arise in a matter of minutes. Then you can continue your activities without feeling any negative things in you.
Another way you can do is to look at the situation you are facing from a different angle. If you see something to fear, you probably will not take any action. If you change your perspective, you can change the emotions nagatif appears to be positive. The easiest way to change your point of view is to ask yourself: what good things I can take from this situation? This way you can begin to see things through the eyes of a new and more positive, and at the same time triggering your enthusiasm in starting something.
Not too take seriously the thoughts and emotions are of the same nature as the other things that you usually do. It is a habit that you build and grow stronger. Slowly you will mempu detach yourself from the burden of thoughts and emotions that bind you.
3. Too often Listening Negative Opinions of Others.
I have mentioned this several times. What people say about the world, and you may not be correct. Often he says is more of a feeling person about himself and he speaks to the people around him. If they share the negative things then it is more a reflection of themselves in comparison to the reality.
Of course, there is the possibility of criticism that person to give to yourself or your ideas completely. But on the other hand, the criticism is often a person's negative opinion about his perspective on the environment, how they want it to look right in a conversation, or how he wants to emphasize his point of view about reality and to create a sense of security and a feeling that all happened like normally.
I think you need to listen to the opinions of others. Especially the people who have been in the position where you want to go. But in the end try to make their own decisions. Try to do a lot of things and see what works rather than just listening to the predictions of others.
4. Not Creating Enough Much Energy In Yourself
Without the power of self, it is very difficult to do anything. If you have mastered the basics in keeping yourself then you will have more power to turn your ideas into reality. So if you get enough rest, eat healthy foods and exercise then you give more value for yourself.
For me - because I always sleep and eat regularly - the most important thing for me is exercising regularly. Sports make you have more energy and easier way of doing things.
5. Too Much Planning, Reading, and Thinking
Doing something with a lot more often not a good idea. It may sound good at first, but based on my experience, it actually makes you confused and could only finish even fewer jobs.
One of the mistakes that often you do is too long to plan. To ensure your job runs smoothly, the most important thing you can do is develop a plan perfectly. You can develop a plan to analyze the potential problems that can arise when you are implementing your plan. The problem is when you implement your plan: you have not thought about the possibility that could happen.
The plan, which really would be very difficult to perfectly prepared. So after you make plans, immediately initiate the plan, work to implement the plan and resolve the problems that arise when you start working.
Reading too much is another way that can hinder you. You feel you need to read one or more books or articles then take action. Maybe tomorrow or next week. Too much reading can also cause confusion arise because different experts have different advice for you.
Reading makes you feel better because you are moving toward your goals and educate yourself. However, in order to obtain better results, alanglah helps if you read for information on the basic steps that you can do, too frequent mistakes made by others, and start working out at the gym.
Too many think is the most popular way to put things. Delays can confiscate your time as you imagine your future, or negative scenario may never happen in the real world. Based on my experience, too much thinking just makes you think of a more complicated and can draw you into a cycle of negative thoughts that you are afraid to take action.
So, do something more it sounds like a good idea. You do something to make things better. Plan, read, and think three things are considered as something very good in our society. And thirdly it is a good thing. But you can not take action by doing three things more.
Another problem that arises is these three things can make you feel you are making progress. So you continue to do those three things, and do not take action, as well as replacing the real feeling that you have made progress with the wrong feeling.
"Take a method and try the method. If it fails, admit it and try another method. But most importantly, do something. "- Franklin D. Roosevelt -
"Often the difference between success and failure is not because that one does not have the skills or ideas, but the courage to take the risk on existing ideas and implement them."
- Maxwell Maltz -
What is stopping you from doing something? Here are five mistakes I have done many times. And I still make mistakes, but not as much as I did before. I continue to improve gradually.
These are actions that can make you hold back, even stop yourself from taking action and getting what you want. In fact there is more than 5 things, but now I want to focus on the 5 things that in my opinion can stop me and other people in general.
1. Too Seriously In Thinking of Something
Thinking often mention as the best thing in the world. In some cases, actually inhibits your thinking. In my opinion: I was not the result of my thinking, I was an observer of my thoughts. Thoughts like this make you not too attached to existing ideas. And to avoid the thought that what people say is the truth. Often this kind of thinking is useless and will only satisfy your head. And you realize that you do not have to think too seriously these thoughts. You can forget it if you want it.
With this perspective, it will be easier for you to take a distance from your thoughts and control them rather than allowing yourself to be controlled by these thoughts. Common sense is important, but sometimes we realize we are thinking of what to listen to and which thoughts are just nonsense.
2. Too Seriously Consider Your Emotions
There is time for you to listen to your emotions. But often it is not a good idea. Once again, for me the emotion is something I observed. It allows me to take a distance from the emotions and not too seriously considers your emotions, unless those emotions can help you in certain situations.
If you have a negative emotion that you refrain from taking action, then what can you do so that you do not really take seriously your emotions?
One thing you can do is to accept the fact that there is a feeling in you. Instead you deny your feelings and do not accept such feelings; let go and accept those feelings. By accepting these feelings without giving any label and just watched: you could reduce the negative feelings that arise in a matter of minutes. Then you can continue your activities without feeling any negative things in you.
Another way you can do is to look at the situation you are facing from a different angle. If you see something to fear, you probably will not take any action. If you change your perspective, you can change the emotions nagatif appears to be positive. The easiest way to change your point of view is to ask yourself: what good things I can take from this situation? This way you can begin to see things through the eyes of a new and more positive, and at the same time triggering your enthusiasm in starting something.
Not too take seriously the thoughts and emotions are of the same nature as the other things that you usually do. It is a habit that you build and grow stronger. Slowly you will mempu detach yourself from the burden of thoughts and emotions that bind you.
3. Too often Listening Negative Opinions of Others.
I have mentioned this several times. What people say about the world, and you may not be correct. Often he says is more of a feeling person about himself and he speaks to the people around him. If they share the negative things then it is more a reflection of themselves in comparison to the reality.
Of course, there is the possibility of criticism that person to give to yourself or your ideas completely. But on the other hand, the criticism is often a person's negative opinion about his perspective on the environment, how they want it to look right in a conversation, or how he wants to emphasize his point of view about reality and to create a sense of security and a feeling that all happened like normally.
I think you need to listen to the opinions of others. Especially the people who have been in the position where you want to go. But in the end try to make their own decisions. Try to do a lot of things and see what works rather than just listening to the predictions of others.
4. Not Creating Enough Much Energy In Yourself
Without the power of self, it is very difficult to do anything. If you have mastered the basics in keeping yourself then you will have more power to turn your ideas into reality. So if you get enough rest, eat healthy foods and exercise then you give more value for yourself.
For me - because I always sleep and eat regularly - the most important thing for me is exercising regularly. Sports make you have more energy and easier way of doing things.
5. Too Much Planning, Reading, and Thinking
Doing something with a lot more often not a good idea. It may sound good at first, but based on my experience, it actually makes you confused and could only finish even fewer jobs.
One of the mistakes that often you do is too long to plan. To ensure your job runs smoothly, the most important thing you can do is develop a plan perfectly. You can develop a plan to analyze the potential problems that can arise when you are implementing your plan. The problem is when you implement your plan: you have not thought about the possibility that could happen.
The plan, which really would be very difficult to perfectly prepared. So after you make plans, immediately initiate the plan, work to implement the plan and resolve the problems that arise when you start working.
Reading too much is another way that can hinder you. You feel you need to read one or more books or articles then take action. Maybe tomorrow or next week. Too much reading can also cause confusion arise because different experts have different advice for you.
Reading makes you feel better because you are moving toward your goals and educate yourself. However, in order to obtain better results, alanglah helps if you read for information on the basic steps that you can do, too frequent mistakes made by others, and start working out at the gym.
Too many think is the most popular way to put things. Delays can confiscate your time as you imagine your future, or negative scenario may never happen in the real world. Based on my experience, too much thinking just makes you think of a more complicated and can draw you into a cycle of negative thoughts that you are afraid to take action.
So, do something more it sounds like a good idea. You do something to make things better. Plan, read, and think three things are considered as something very good in our society. And thirdly it is a good thing. But you can not take action by doing three things more.
Another problem that arises is these three things can make you feel you are making progress. So you continue to do those three things, and do not take action, as well as replacing the real feeling that you have made progress with the wrong feeling.
